Shelby Miller, LMFT- Guiding Heartfelt Transformation for Individuals and Couples

Portrait of a woman with light skin, long wavy brown hair, blue eyes, wearing a gray top and a delicate gold necklace, smiling softly against a plain gray background.

Welcome- I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a licensed therapist committed to helping individuals and couples heal relational trauma, overcome emotional blocks, and reconnect with themselves and those they love. My clients are thoughtful and self-aware yet ready for deeper change—a felt sense of safety, presence, and the ability to be in charge of their experience and truly heal.

I understand how vulnerable it can feel to reach out for help. I offer a respectful, compassionate, and confidential space where you can explore your experiences, process emotions, and reclaim a sense of balance and belonging. Whether we meet in-person in Solana Beach or online, every session is tailored to your unique journey. I believe deeply in the body’s innate power to heal, and that healing begins with taking the first step.

Clients describe me as genuine, insightful, honest, and caring. I’m also a former Division I athlete and a mother of two wonderful children. Outside the office, I love spending time with my family and being in nature.

When you’re ready to feel calmer, closer, and more secure in yourself and your relationships, I invite you to schedule a free consultation.

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She is compassionate, kind, articulate, and insightful. She has a way of gently but clearly getting to the heart of what matters, helping her clients find the clarity within themselves to evolve and heal. All of this with a sense of humor and grace that are rare to find these days, especially in a counselor.
— San Diego Client

Education/Training/Certifications:

BS in Psychology and Women’s Studies from UC Santa Barbara and an MS in Counseling from San Francisco State University

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Arizona LMFT 15166 California LMFT 49821

Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist and a Certified Emotionally Focused Individual Therapist (EFT)

Level II practitioner in Accelerated, Dynamic Experiential Psychotherapy (AEDP)